Nov. 3: Fish Like Jesus

Sermon Recap 🎬

Pastor Kendrick emphasizes the importance of being authentic, accepting, compassionate, and courageous in our relationships with others. He highlights that Jesus exemplified unconditional acceptance and love, even towards those society deemed undeserving, showing that we can meet people where they are without condoning their actions. Instead of condemning others for their mistakes, Kendrick encourages us to approach them with compassion, recognizing the stories that inform their decisions and struggles. Ultimately, he calls believers to boldly share the message of Jesus as a source of hope and transformation for those in need.

Ice Breaker 🧊

What is your favorite month of the year? Why?

Message Clip 📼

Check out the 10 minute clip here: https://vimeo.com/1026196786/44ebb621a4?share=copy

Discussion Questions 💬

What does it mean to 'fish like Jesus' and why is authenticity important in building relationships with others?  

• Pastor emphasizes that being yourself and authentic is key to connecting with people, similar to how Jesus interacted with others.

• Can you think of a time when being authentic helped you build a relationship? How did that experience make you feel?

Pastor discussed the importance of being accepting and not judging others. How can we apply this principle in our daily interactions?  

• He explains that Jesus accepted people without coming down hard on their faults, which is different from the religious leaders' approach who felt you had to judge first.

• Reflect on a situation where you found it hard to accept someone. What steps can you take to be more accepting in the future?

Based on John 3:16, how does understanding God's love shape our attitude toward others' mistakes?  

• Pastor refers to this verse to show that Jesus didn't come to condemn but to save, encouraging acceptance and compassion instead of judgment.

• How can recognizing that God loves everyone, including those we disagree with, change the way you approach relationships in your life?

Why is it important to show compassion rather than condemnation when we see others making poor decisions?  

• Pastor talks about how Jesus looked at people with compassion and understood they were often 'like sheep without a shepherd.'

• Think about a person you might be tempted to condemn. How could you approach them with compassion instead?

What does it mean to be courageous in sharing your faith, according to Pastor's discussion, and why is this important?   

• Pastor encourages not being ashamed of the gospel and being a light in the world, much like Paul did when he wrote to the Romans.

• Can you identify a moment when you felt scared or ashamed to share your beliefs? How can you prepare yourself to be more courageous in the future?

Prayer 🙏

• Ask for prayer requests from the group.
• Pray that we can show authenticity in our relationships this week.
• Ask God to help us accept others without judgment.
• Pray for opportunities to be compassionate and courageous in our community.

Oct. 27: Lead Like Jesus

Sermon Recap 🎬

This message highlights the transformative power of Jesus' leadership and how it encourages us to value and add value to others. John Mark emphasizes that true leadership is rooted in servitude, urging followers to see people as valuable and to actively serve them without expecting anything in return. Ultimately, he calls the congregation to allow Jesus to lead their lives, fostering a community that influences and uplifts those around them.

Ice Breaker 🧊

Who is a great leader/boss/teacher/coach you’ve followed? (Don’t answer Jesus or anyone in the room with you ;) Why is that person so great?

Message Clip 📼

Check out the 13 minute clip here: https://vimeo.com/1024423407/fc1ef2e47f?share=copy

Discussion Questions 💬

How does understanding that 'leadership is influence' change the way you think about your role within your family, school, or friend group?  

• Pastor discussed that leadership isn't just about titles but about the impact you have on others.

• Can you think of a time when you influenced someone positively? What did you do, and how did it make you feel?

Romans 8:29 talks about being conformed to the image of Jesus. What do you think it means to be 'conformed to the image of Jesus' in our daily lives?  

• Pastor emphasized the importance of becoming more like Jesus in our actions and behaviors.

• How can you make a conscious effort to act more like Jesus in your interactions with others this week?

What are some practical ways you can add value to the people around you, as Jesus did?  

• The sermon mentioned that adding value to others is key to leading like Jesus; it helps to shift focus from ourselves to helping others.

• Can you plan one specific act of kindness for someone this week that demonstrates adding value to their life?

Why is it important to see the potential in others instead of focusing on their flaws?   

• Pastor pointed out that Jesus looked past people's sins to see their potential and value.

• Think about someone in your life who you might easily judge. How can you change your perspective to see their potential instead?

Prayer 🙏

• Ask for God’s guidance on how to serve others this week. • Pray for the strength to value all people in our daily interactions. • Seek God’s help in identifying individuals we can intentionally add value to. • Ask for wisdom to lead like Jesus in our families and communities.

Oct. 20: Forgive Like Jesus

Sermon Recap 🎬

Pastor emphasized the importance of forgiveness, highlighting that it is more difficult than many presume, even harder than miraculous acts like raising the dead. He illustrated this with the powerful example of Jesus forgiving those who crucified Him, urging the congregation to realize that harboring offenses goes against the grace they've received from God. Using a parable of a servant who, despite being forgiven a massive debt, refused to forgive a small one owed to him, Pastor demonstrated how unforgiveness can lock us in spiritual bondage. Ultimately, he encouraged the audience to let go of their offenses, reminding them that we cannot claim the right to be offended while benefiting from the forgiveness we receive from Christ.

Ice Breaker 🧊

What is one instance when you really made a mess as a kid or got into big trouble?

Message Clip 📼

Check out the 10 minute clip here: hhttps://vimeo.com/1021801698

Discussion Questions 💬

Why do you think Jesus emphasized the importance of forgiveness so much, and what does it mean to truly forgive someone?  

• Pastor talked about how hard it is to forgive, especially when Jesus, in the moment of His crucifixion, said, 'Father, forgive them.'

• Can you recall a time when you found it difficult to forgive someone? How did that impact your relationship with them and with yourself?

In the parable told by Jesus, why is the amount of money owed by the first servant so much greater than the amount owed by the second servant?  

• Pastor explained that the first servant owed a debt that was equivalent to $6 billion, while the second one owed about $12,000.

• How does understanding the difference between these two amounts help you see your own need for forgiveness in relation to others' wrongs against you?

What does it mean to 'take the offense' as Jesus did on the cross, and how can that shift our perspective on forgiving others?  

• The pastor emphasized that forgiveness is about giving the offense to God rather than holding onto it ourselves.

• Can you think of a personal situation where you need to take an offense to God rather than keep it and feel angry or bitter?

Pastor stated, 'We can't exercise the right to be offended while claiming the privilege of being forgiven.' What does that mean for our everyday interactions?  

• This statement underlines the idea that if we acknowledge God's forgiveness, we shouldn’t hold onto offenses against others.

• Reflect on your daily life. Are there instances where you struggle to apply this principle, and how could you change your approach?

How can understanding our own sinfulness help us to forgive others more freely?   

• Pastor pointed out that we often forget our own need for forgiveness when we’re angry with someone else.

• Think about times when you've been wronged. How might recalling your own mistakes and how you've been forgiven influence your capacity to forgive others?

Prayer 🙏

• Ask for prayer requests among the group.
• Pray for personal breakthroughs in the area of forgiveness this week.
• Ask God to remind us of His forgiveness towards us in our daily lives.
• Seek guidance on how to handle serious offenses we may be experiencing.

Oct. 13: Trust Like Jesus

Sermon Recap 🎬

Pastor emphasizes the importance of trusting God's plan, especially during difficult times. He acknowledges that many people often ask God for proof before choosing to trust Him, but true faith requires vulnerability and surrender. Using Jesus' prayer in Gethsemane as an example, he highlights the need to bring our worries to God while understanding that His ways may not align with our expectations. Ultimately, this trust leads to a deeper relationship with God, reminding us that, despite life's challenges, He is always working for our good.

Ice Breaker 🧊

What is your least favorite hobby that you’ve ever tried? Why?

Message Clip 📼

Check out the 8 minute clip here: https://vimeo.com/1019568269

Discussion Questions 💬

Why do you think it is so difficult for many people to trust God's plan, as mentioned in the sermon?  

• Pastor talks about how often we say things like 'prove it to me' before trusting God.

• Can you think of a time when you struggled to trust God's plan in your own life? How did that affect your situation?

What does it mean to take your worries and pain to God, similar to how Jesus did in the garden?  

• Pastor emphasizes the importance of being vulnerable with God, taking our questions and struggles to Him.

• What are some specific worries or struggles you can share with God this week?

In Romans 8:28, it states that 'God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God.' How does this perspective change the way we view challenges in our lives?  

• Pastor references this scripture to illustrate that trusting God means believing He is always working for our good.

• Can you think of a difficult situation in your life that later turned out for good? How did that change your view on trusting God?

Why do you think Jesus's example of praying earnestly in times of trouble is important for us to follow?  

• Pastor mentions Jesus's prayer in the garden, emphasizing the need to connect with God during our struggles.

• What are some ways you can strengthen your prayer life when facing tough times?

How can we differentiate between our own plans and God's plans for us, as highlighted in the sermon?   

• Pastor discusses how often we have our own expectations for life, but we need to acknowledge God's will instead.

• What personal plans have you had that did not go the way you hoped? How might you seek to understand God's plan in those situations?

Prayer 🙏

• Ask God to help apply the lesson of trusting in His plan in your daily life this week. • Pray for one another’s specific concerns and areas of doubt. • Ask God for the strength to be vulnerable in prayer, just as Jesus modeled. • Seek clarity on God’s will in your personal circumstances.

Oct. 6: See Like Jesus

Sermon Recap 🎬

Jesus has the remarkable ability to see individuals in the midst of a crowded world. Despite the vastness of humanity, God gives his full attention to each person. Pastor Kendrick shares stories of Jesus encountering individuals like the woman who had been suffering for twelve years and Matthew, the tax collector, illustrating how Jesus saw beyond their external situations to their internal struggles and potential.We can slow down our busy lives and genuinely connect with others, recognizing that many may be silently suffering or "bleeding internally." By adopting Jesus' perspective, we can help those in need and see them with compassion and faith.

Ice Breaker 🧊

If you could only eat one type of food for the rest of your life, but it had to be served on a pizza, what would it be?

 Message Clip 📼

Check out the 7 minute clip here: https://vimeo.com/1017100617

Discussion Questions 💬

What does it mean to 'see the one' like Jesus does, and how can we apply this concept in our daily interactions?  

• Pastor Kendrick emphasizes how Jesus has the ability to see and focus on individuals, even in crowded situations. He gives examples of Jesus noticing people like Matthew and Zacchaeus who were overlooked by others.

• Can you think of a time when you felt like someone really saw you or understood your struggles? How did that impact you?

In what ways can we be more aware of the internal struggles that others may be facing, similar to the woman who had been bleeding for twelve years?  

• The sermon highlights that many people are 'bleeding internally' and are hurting even when it is not visible on the outside.

• How can understanding that others might be dealing with hidden pain change the way you interact with people at school or in your community?

Why do you think it is difficult for many people to truly notice or connect with others in today's fast-paced world?  

• Pastor Kendrick notes that people often get caught up in their own busy lives and may miss opportunities to connect deeply with others.

• Reflect on your own life. Are there times when you might rush through interactions without really noticing the other person? What can you do to change that?

How can we foster a culture in our community where people feel comfortable sharing their struggles, as highlighted in the story of the healthcare provider?  

• Pastor Kendrick shares an example of a healthcare provider who had a meaningful conversation with a patient, showing the power of authenticity in our interactions.

• What steps can you take to create an environment where people feel safe to be open about their struggles at school or in your friend group?

How does seeing people with 'eyes of faith,' as mentioned by Pastor Kendrick, influence our ability to help others?   

• Pastor Kendrick discusses the importance of seeing people not just as they appear, but through a lens of faith, which can change how we perceive their situation.

• What are some ways you can practice seeing your friends and family with faith, especially during difficult times?

Prayer 🙏

• Take a moment to ask for any prayer requests from the group.
• Ask God to help us slow down and truly see those around us this week.
• Pray for the ability to notice those who may be hurting internally.
• Request for faith to see others with His eyes and love.

Sept. 29: Love Like Jesus

Sermon Recap 🎬

Pastor emphasized the importance of understanding both our sinfulness and God’s incredible grace. He explained that recognizing the depth of our sin often leads to a greater appreciation of God's forgiveness, which transforms our ability to love others. Pastor illustrated this through the story of Jesus, who showed that when we realize how much we've been forgiven, our love for Him increases. Ultimately, he reassured that God's grace is greater than we believe, and He views us with love and favor rather than condemnation.

Ice Breaker 🧊

If you could be CEO of any business, what would it be and why?

Message Clip 📼

Check out the 15 minute clip here: https://vimeo.com/1014550224?share=copy#t=0

Discussion Questions 💬

What does it mean to realize that 'my sin is greater than I believe'? How can this understanding change our perspective on how we view ourselves and others?  

• Pastor discussed how we often minimize our own sins while magnifying the sins of others, suggesting that recognizing the truth of our own sinfulness is crucial.

• In what ways can acknowledging your own shortcomings help you to be more compassionate towards others' mistakes?

Pastor mentioned the Pharisees' comparison of their sins to others. Why can comparing ourselves to others be problematic in our spiritual journey?  

• The sermon highlights how comparing our sins to those of others can lead to self-righteousness and a false sense of security in our goodness.

• How might shifting the focus back to comparing ourselves to God's standards instead of others help us grow spiritually?

What does it mean to say 'God's grace is greater than I believe'? How can this belief impact our daily lives?  

• Pastor emphasized that understanding God's grace leads to a deeper appreciation of our forgiveness, transforming how we live.

• Can you think of a situation in your life where fully accepting God's grace would change how you respond or act?

In the sermon, Pastor shared an example involving the military to explain the consequences of sin. How does understanding who we sin against affect our view of sin and forgiveness?  

• The analogy illustrated that the severity of sin is linked to the authority of the one wronged, which raises the seriousness of sin against God.

• How can recognizing the holiness of God change how you approach repentance and seeking forgiveness in your life?

Pastor pointed out that God's love is not mostly mad or sad, but truly unconditional. What does this mean for your relationship with God?   

• The pastor emphasized that God delights in us and wants us to experience His love without fear of disappointment or anger.

• How can embracing the truth of God's unconditional love influence how you interact with others and yourself?

Prayer 🙏

• Ask for prayer requests and share personal struggles.
• Pray for the ability to see your own sin as God sees it.
• Request God's help in extending grace to others in your life.
• Ask for strength to not dwell on past mistakes and to focus on His forgiveness.

Sept. 22: Breakthrough Worship

Sermon Recap 🎬

There is a powerful role of worship as a weapon in spiritual battles, exemplified by the Israelites' victory over Jericho through their praise rather than conventional warfare. He highlights that worship may seem weak in the world's eyes, but it's a means for God's strength to manifest in our challenges. The sermon encourages believers to prioritize worship, especially during difficult times, as it can lead to breakthroughs even when progress seems slow. Ultimately, Pastor reminds us that we are inherently made for worship, and when we put God first, we experience peace, joy, and confidence in our lives.

Ice Breaker 🧊

If you could have any animal in the world as a pet, regardless of size or danger, what would it be and why?

Message Clip 📼

Check out the 14 minute clip here: https://vimeo.com/1012192937

Discussion Questions 💬

How does the story of the Israelites marching around Jericho illustrate the idea that worship is a powerful weapon in facing challenges?  

• Pastor discussed how the Israelites shouted and worshiped, leading to a miraculous breakthrough when the walls of Jericho collapsed.

• Can you think of a time when you faced a difficult situation and felt that worship helped you find strength or clarity?

In what ways can worship serve as a response to our challenges rather than a last resort, as suggested by Pastor?  

• The sermon emphasized that prayer and worship should be our first responses to life's difficulties.

• What practices can you incorporate into your life to make worship a first response when you encounter problems?

Why do you think Pastor mentioned that everyone, regardless of their musical ability, can worship God?  

• Pastor shared that worship isn't about musical talent but about connecting with God from the heart.

• How can you express your worship to God in your own unique way, even if you don’t feel musically gifted?

What benefits did Pastor list that come from worshiping God, and how can they impact our daily lives?  

• The sermon highlighted benefits such as peace, joy, and confidence that come from worshiping God.

• How can you actively seek these benefits in your life and what steps can you take to prioritize worship?

How did the example of Paul and Silas worshiping while in prison show the strength of worship in difficult times?   

• Pastor talked about Paul and Silas singing hymns in prison, leading to their miraculous release and showing how worship can transform situations.

• Have you ever felt overwhelmed like Paul and Silas? How can you remind yourself to worship during your own tough times?

Prayer 🙏

• Start by sharing any personal prayer requests and needs for the group.
• Ask God to remind us to put worship first in our battles this week.
• Pray for breakthroughs in areas where we feel stuck or challenged.
• Request God’s help in developing a deeper relationship through worship.

Sept. 15: Breakthrough Miracles

Sermon Recap 🎬

This message emphasizes that while we often seek breakthroughs in our lives, our true need is to recognize that God alone is enough for us. He challenges the congregation to consider whether they desire God's gifts more than God Himself and highlights that Jesus taught the people about their spiritual needs before addressing their physical ones. The pastor shares personal experiences and biblical examples to illustrate the importance of trusting God, even when circumstances do not improve as expected. Ultimately, he instills the message that true peace comes from knowing God’s sufficiency, regardless of life’s ups and downs.

Ice Breaker 🧊

If you could only eat one food for the rest of your life, what would it be and why?

Message Clip 📼

Check out the 12 minute clip here: https://vimeo.com/1009971287?share=copy#t=0

Discussion Questions 💬

Why do you think it can be challenging for us to focus on God as the giver rather than just seeking His gifts, especially during tough times?  

• Pastor discussed how loving the gift more than the giver is a problem and how God asks if He will be enough for us even if our breakthrough doesn’t come.

• Can you think of a time when you focused more on what you wanted from God rather than on your relationship with Him? How did that affect you?

In the sermon, Pastor shared the story of Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego. What can we learn from their refusal to worship King Nebuchadnezzar's gods?  

• He mentioned that these young men were clear about serving their God, even when faced with danger.

• How can you stand firm in your beliefs when others around you may not agree or may pressure you to follow the crowd?

Pastor talked about how Jesus saw people as sheep without a shepherd. Why do you think it's important for us to recognize the spiritual needs of others?  

• He emphasized that while physical needs are essential, the greatest need is spiritual or vertical, which only God can fulfill.

• How can you meet someone's spiritual needs in your life right now? What steps can you take to support them?

What does it mean to you when Pastor says that God is enough even if our situation doesn’t improve or if we don’t receive the breakthrough we want?  

• He explained that accepting God's sufficiency can give us freedom and peace, even in difficult situations.

• How can you practically remind yourself of God's sufficiency in times of worry or disappointment?

How can we find hope and strength in our faith when we experience both high highs and low lows, as Pastor described in his own life recently?   

• He shared a personal story of contrasting events happening on the same day, highlighting the complexities of life.

• Can you think of a time when you experienced both joy and sorrow at the same time? How did your faith help you through that?

Prayer 🙏

• Ask for prayer requests from the group.
• Pray for strength to trust God even in difficult situations this week.
• Ask God to help you focus on the vertical needs over the horizontal distractions.
• Request guidance to hold onto faith even if breakthrough doesn't happen as expected.

Sept. 8: Breakthrough Surrender

Sermon Recap 🎬

The sermon emphasizes the importance of surrendering to God's word even when it conflicts with our personal desires and beliefs. Pastor highlights that true submission begins when we disagree with God's directives, challenging us to assess our willingness to follow Jesus' teachings. The need for wise counsel in our lives is underscored, promoting the idea that guidance from others can prevent missteps and lead to victory. Ultimately, listening to God's voice and allowing His peace to guide us are pivotal aspects of living a life aligned with His will.

Ice Breaker 🧊

If you were to invent a new ice cream flavor that was inspired by your favorite movie, what would it be and what would you call it?

Message Clip 📼

Check out the 9 minute clip here: https://vimeo.com/1007784352

Discussion Questions 💬

How do you interpret the statement 'Submission begins where agreement ends' in your own life?  

• This statement from the sermon emphasizes that true submission to God's will happens when we might not agree with what He says.

• Can you think of a recent situation where you had to choose between following God's guidance and your own desires? How did that make you feel?

Why do you think it is difficult for people to seek wise counsel in their lives?  

• Pastor shared that many struggle with getting counsel because they either want to do things their way or haven't seen a good example of seeking advice.

• Who do you currently turn to for advice, and how can you expand your circle of wise counselors?

What does the proverb 'Where there is no guidance, the people fall' mean to you?  

• This proverb suggests that without guidance and wise counsel, people can easily make mistakes and stumble.

• Reflect on a time when you experienced guidance in a decision. How did that impact your outcome?

How can we effectively listen for God’s voice in our daily lives?  

• Pastor mentioned that God wants to lead us through His voice and that we should listen for it.

• What practices can you implement in your routine this week to better recognize God’s voice in your decisions?

In what ways have you seen or experienced the idea that loving others can be challenging?   

• The sermon encourages loving everyone, even those we disagree with, which can sometimes be very hard.

• Think of a specific person or situation where loving someone is difficult for you. How can you approach that relationship differently based on the sermon?

Prayer 🙏

• Pray for guidance to wholeheartedly submit to God's ways, even when they conflict with our own desires. • Ask for courage to love and forgive those we find difficult to connect with. • Request wisdom and discernment in seeking counsel from others in our lives. • Spend time bringing any prayer requests from the group before God.

Sept. 1: Breakthrough Change

Sermon Recap 🎬

Pastor emphasizes that God desires our hearts, trust, and worship in our relationship with Him. He points out that the struggles we face often reveal deeper heart issues related to our faith and belief in God’s promises. Trusting God means following His guidance, even when it contradicts our own desires, as true worship is demonstrated through our lives reflecting His character. Ultimately, Pastor reassures that embracing this relationship leads to breakthrough and inner peace, regardless of external circumstances.

Ice Breaker 🧊

If you could only eat one food for the rest of your life, and it couldn't be pizza, what would it be and why?

Message Clip 📼

Check out the 5 minute clip here: https://vimeo.com/1005913496

Discussion Questions 💬

In the sermon, Pastor mentioned trust as a major theme. Why do you think God wants us to trust Him?  

• Pastor highlighted that our relationship with God should be based on faith and trust, not just belief.

• Can you think of a time when trusting God was difficult for you? How did you handle that situation?

What do you think it means when Pastor says that God wants our heart?  

• Pastor emphasized that God desires a close and genuine relationship with us and seeks our heart.

• How can you actively show that you are giving your heart to God in your daily life?

Pastor referred to trusting God with all your heart and not leaning on your own understanding. What does this verse mean to you?  

• This quote reflects the idea that trusting God's wisdom is essential, even when we don't understand everything ourselves.

• Can you identify a situation where you relied on your understanding and how that turned out compared to a situation where you trusted God's guidance?

What is the connection between trust and worship, according to the sermon?  

• Pastor shared that when we give our heart and trust to God, our lives become a form of worship.

• In what ways do you think your actions reflect your worship to God? Can you identify areas where your life could reflect God's glory more?

How can you apply the idea of breakthrough in your life today?   

• Pastor mentioned that God wants to bring breakthroughs into our lives, not just in our circumstances but also within us personally.

• What specific area in your life do you feel you need a breakthrough, and how can you encourage yourself to trust God in that area?

Prayer 🙏

• Ask for prayer requests from the group.
• Pray for trust in God during challenging times.
• Ask God to help each person see where they need to worship Him in their daily lives.
• Request guidance in applying the teachings of the sermon throughout the week.

August 25: Breakthrough Faith

Sermon Recap 🎬

In the sermon "Breakthrough Faith," Pastor Kendrick Vinar emphasizes having faith and trust in God. Drawing from the story of David and Goliath, he highlights the importance of showcasing God's power. Pastor Vinar encourages believers to shift their focus from personal comfort to seeking God's glory. By trusting in God's goodness and focusing on His greatness, individuals can face challenges with confidence and witness God's work in their lives.

Ice Breaker 🧊

What is the biggest surprise you've ever experienced in your life?

Message Clip 📼

Check out the 7 minute clip here: https://vimeo.com/1002815185/18ce801158?share=copy

Discussion Questions 💬

How does the story of David and Goliath teach us to trust in God when facing our own challenges?  

• Pastor Vinar used the story of David and Goliath to show how trusting in God can lead to victory over challenges.

• What is a personal challenge you currently face, and how can trusting in God help you overcome it?

Why is it important for us to focus on the fame and name of God in our lives?  

• Pastor Vinar emphasizes that the fame and name of God are at stake in our lives, which can shift our focus from our problems to the greatness of God.

• What is one way you can consciously shift your focus to the fame and name of God in your daily life?

How can we change our prayer perspective to seek God's glory and fame?  

• Pastor Vinar encouraged believers to shift their perspective from praying for personal comfort to seeking God's glory and fame.

• In what area of your life can you adjust your prayers to focus more on God's glory and fame?

Why should we attribute all victories and successes to God, and how does this mindset impact our faith?  

• Pastor Vinar highlights the importance of acknowledging God's role in our successes, allowing us to shift focus from our problems to God's greatness.

• Can you think of an example where you learned to give credit to God for a victory or success, and how did it strengthen your faith?

What can we learn from Pastor Vinar's personal experience of facing challenges while relying on God's fame and name?   

• Pastor Vinar shared his battle with cancer as an example of how trusting in God's name brought transformation and growth.

• How has relying on God in the midst of challenges helped you grow and transform in your life?

Prayer 🙏

• Share any prayer requests you have this week.
• Ask God to help you focus on His glory and fame in your challenges.
• Pray for the courage to trust Him fully, regardless of circumstances.
• Thank God for His goodness and grace that He displays in our lives.

July 21: Building a Stronger Faith

Pastor Jonathan Love's sermon emphasizes building a stronger faith by recognizing God's purpose in trials, trusting in His work, and worshiping Him despite challenges. He highlights how difficulties strengthen our faith, deepen our dependence on God, and reveal His love and faithfulness. Pastor Love encourages listeners to resist negativity and doubt, drawing near to God for comfort and strength. Ultimately, he stresses the importance of trusting God, worshiping Him wholeheartedly, and embracing His plan even in times of uncertainty.

Ice Breaker 🧊

If you could only eat one meal for the rest of your life, what would it be and why?

Video 🎬

Check out this 7 minute clip: https://vimeo.com/989727870/1944df830f?share=copy

Discussion Questions 💬

1. Why is it important to trust God's work within us during challenging times?  

• Pastor Love explained that trusting God's work allows us to accept the trials as a means to build a strong foundation of faith and character.

• What are some practical ways you can trust God's work in your life, especially during difficult seasons?

2. How can we choose to worship God regardless of our circumstances, and what does that look like in our daily lives?  

• Pastor Love mentioned that worship refers to our heart attitude and how we live our lives in challenges, emphasizing that trusting God and seeking His promises are acts of worship.

• What are some ways you can practice worshiping God in your daily life, no matter what challenges you face?

3. How does reflecting on our own experiences help us better understand God's love, comfort, and faithfulness?  

• Pastor Love encouraged listeners to think about the work God has done in their lives during times of pain and waiting, as it demonstrates His active presence.

• Take a moment to reflect on a challenge you went through. How did God show His love, comfort, and faithfulness in that situation?

4. What does James mean when he encourages believers to consider it pure joy when facing various trials (James 1:2-4)?  

• Pastor Love quoted James, pointing out that trials test and strengthen our faith, producing perseverance, ultimately leading us to be complete, lacking nothing.

• How might you view your current or past trials differently in light of this passage, and how can you embrace them as opportunities for building stronger faith?

5. How can we recognize God's purpose in our trials and suffering?   

• Pastor Jonathan Love emphasized that God is building and shaping our lives in times of pain and suffering, with the purpose of spiritual growth.

• Can you recall a time in your life when you experienced growth in your faith during hardship? How did God work in that situation?

Prayer 🙏

• Ask for any specific prayer requests
• Pray for God to help us recognize that He is building us through our trials
• Pray for strength to endure difficult times with perseverance
• Pray for a heart of worship and trust in God, no matter the circumstances

 July 14: Spiritual Living

Sermon Recap 

Pastor Benson stresses living in peace and respecting authority figures like teachers and leaders. He acknowledges the sensitivity around authority due to past misuse but underscores the biblical importance of honoring it. The sermon highlights the need for healthy relationships, following biblical principles, and seeking godly accountability for personal growth. Lastly, Pastor Benson advises patience, discernment, and forgiveness in dealing with offenses, promoting maturity in one's response as a follower of Jesus.

Ice Breaker 🧊

If you could instantly become an expert in any hobby, what would it be and why?

Video 🎬

Check out this 13 minute clip:

https://vimeo.com/985978854/b8ee91ec61?share=copy

Discussion Questions 💬

Why does Pastor Matt emphasize the importance of honoring authority figures in our lives?  

• The sermon discussed how order is maintained through healthy leadership and authority, and recognizing the authority figures like teachers, coaches and spiritual leaders.

• Think about an authority figure in your life who has made a positive impact on you. How can you honor and support them?

Based on 1 Thessalonians 5:12-15, how should we relate to different groups of people within the church?  

• Pastor Benson explained that believers should warn those who are undisciplined, comfort the faint-hearted, and uphold the weak, emphasizing the importance of healthy relationships and mutual support.

• What steps can you take to apply these instructions in your relationships within your church community?

Why is it important for believers to seek godly authority and accountability?  

• The sermon mentioned that an accountable life is a safe life, and godly authority figures can have a positive impact on one's spiritual growth.

• Who in your life can you reach out to for godly authority or accountability? If you don't have someone, how can you find a mentor or support system?

How can we practice patience and discernment in our interactions with others, as encouraged by Pastor Benson?  

• Pastor Benson urged the congregation to understand the needs and situations of others before offering advice and to practice patience, being attentive and sensitive to the needs of others.

• Can you think of a specific situation where you could exercise more patience or discernment in your interactions? What would that look like?

Why is it important to respond to offenses and injustices within the church community in a mature and forgiving manner?   

• Pastor Benson advised against retaliating and emphasized the importance of pursuing what is good for ourselves and for all, reflecting our maturity as followers of Jesus.

• When faced with an offense or injustice, how can you respond in a way that reflects your faith and maturity? What steps can you take to prevent or resolve conflicts within your church community?

Prayer 🙏

• Ask for any specific prayer requests from the group.

• • Ask God to help us recognize and honor those in authority over us.

• • Pray for patience and understanding in our interactions with others.

• • Seek guidance for offering support and encouragement to those who are weak or discouraged.

July 7: You’re Invited to the Party

Sermon Summary 🎬

In the sermon “You’re Invited to the Party,” our Student Direct, John Salsman, emphasizes supporting young people through personal stories and biblical teaching, highlighting the power of love and forgiveness. By sharing his own struggles and the story of the prodigal son, John encourages the audience to reflect on God's unconditional love. The sermon urges listeners to extend love and forgiveness to others, promoting personal growth and deeper relationships. John concludes with a call to action to embrace love and seek reconciliation, ending with a prayer for guidance in loving as God does.

Ice Breaker 🧊

1. What’s a funny story you and a sibling share?

2. What is a lesson you learned from a sibling?

3. What was your walk with God like in middle school and high school?

VIDEO

Check out the 9 minute clip at https://vimeo.com/980643455/76b0c417bf?share=copy

Discussion Questions 💬

1. How does the father's response to the younger son's return demonstrate unconditional love?

   In the sermon, the father welcomed his son back with love and compassion without any punishment, despite his son's past mistakes.

   Can you think of a time when you received unexpected love and forgiveness in your own life? How did it make you feel?

2. What does the prodigal son's decision to return home teach us about repentance?

   In the sermon, John emphasized the son's recognition of his wrongdoings and his choice to return home as an act of repentance.

   Is there a situation in your life where you need to repent and seek forgiveness? How can you take steps towards reconciliation?

3. How does Romans 8:35-39 relate to the theme of God's unconditional love?

   These verses reassure believers that nothing can separate them from the love of Christ, which was demonstrated in the sermon through the father's response to the prodigal son.

   What do these verses mean to you personally? How can they help you remember God's love in times of doubt or struggle?

4. Why might someone feel unworthy of God's love and forgiveness?

   John mentioned that people may experience feelings of guilt and shame. The younger son in the sermon felt unworthy when returning to his father.

   Have you ever felt unworthy of God's love? What can you do to remind yourself of His unconditional love and forgiveness?

5. How can the story of the prodigal son encourage us to reflect on our own lives?

   The sermon encourages listeners to consider areas where they may need forgiveness and reconciliation. The story provides a powerful reminder of God’s love and forgiveness.

   What areas in your life can you identify where you may need to seek forgiveness and embrace God's love?

Prayer 🙏

Prayer Prompt: • Let us first take a moment to share any specific prayer requests we have. • Ask God to show us who we can give unconditional love. • Pray that we would realize the unconditional love that God has given us.

June 30: Let’s Talk Next Gen

Sermon Summary 🎬

In the sermon "Let's Talk Next Gen," Pastor Kendrick Vinar emphasizes the importance of making disciples of our children and navigating the different stages of parenting. By focusing on nurturing a safe and caring environment in the early years, establishing boundaries and teaching responsibility as children grow, and transitioning to a consultant role in young adulthood, parents can effectively guide their children towards a relationship with Christ. Pastor Vinar provides eight essential teachings to help parents prioritize character development, humility, hard work, and spiritual experiences over material possessions and societal pressures, ultimately shaping their children into disciples of Christ.

Ice Breaker 🧊

1. What was one memorable thing your parents taught you?

2. What do you think is one practical thing parents should teach their children?

3. What is the most fun you had with your parents as a child?

VIDEO

Check out the 19 minute clip at https://vimeo.com/973351734/9531c18618?share=copy

If you want to break up the long clip, stop at time stamp 8 minutes. The first 8 minutes explains the 4 stages of parenting, and the last 11 minutes goes through 8 ways to disciple your kids.

Discussion Questions 💬

1. How can we create a nurturing environment for children in the caretaking stage (ages zero to five) that helps them understand who loves and cares for them?

   Pastor Kendrick emphasized the importance of creating a safe and nurturing environment for young children in the first stage of parenting.

   What specific actions can you take in your own family to provide such an environment for your children or the children in your circle?

2. Why is it crucial to strike a balance between teaching children to follow boundaries and allowing them to experience freedom? How can this be achieved during the coaching phase (ages thirteen to eighteen)?

   Pastor Kendrick mentioned the importance of teaching responsibility and freedom during the coaching phase of parenting.

   What strategies can you implement in your own parenting or mentoring to help young people learn the value of boundaries and freedom?

3. What does it mean to transition from a 'coach' to a 'consultant' as your child becomes a young adult? How can parents effectively support their children while respecting their independence?

   Pastor Kendrick described the need for parents to transition from a hands-on role to a more advisory role when their children become young adults.

   How can you adapt your own relationship with your adult children or young adults in your life to provide guidance and support while respecting their autonomy?

4. How can we prioritize character development and nurturing a child's heart instead of focusing solely on external behavior?

   One of the essential teachings Pastor Kendrick provided was the value of prioritizing character development over outward actions.

   What specific steps can you take in your own interactions with children to help them develop good character traits and internalize positive values?

5. Why is it important to invest in shared experiences with your children over material possessions, and how can this help create stronger family bonds?

   Pastor Kendrick advised to focus on creating lasting memories and quality time with our children over material things.

   What activities or experiences can you plan within your own family or community to foster deeper connections and make lasting memories?

Prayer 🙏

Prayer Prompt: • Let us first take a moment to share any specific prayer requests we have. • Ask God to help us apply the teachings from the sermon to our parenting this week. • Pray for wisdom and discernment as we navigate the different stages of parenting. • Ask God to help us prioritize the spiritual growth of our children and create a nurturing environment for them.

June 23: How Can I Make a Difference

Sermon Summary 🎬

Pastor Steve emphasizes the call to make a difference in our generation, families, and for God. He highlights the importance of being willing to stand out, take risks, and be faithful to God's calling. Using Noah as an example, Pastor Steve illustrates the impact of being different and obedient in one's generation. He challenges the congregation to value availability over ability and trust God in every endeavor. Overall, the sermon encourages listeners to embrace the opportunity to make a difference by living for Christ and standing up for Him.

Ice Breaker 🧊

If you were a superhero, what would your catchphrase be when coming to the rescue?

What's the most unique or unusual talent you have that you think could make a difference in the world (even if it's just making people smile)?

VIDEO

Check out the 7 minute message clip at https://vimeo.com/968100600/413d347ca1?share=copy

Discussion Questions 💬

1. How can we make a difference in our generation like Noah did, even when facing ridicule or criticism?

   Pastor Steve used the example of Noah building the ark and facing ridicule for many years.

   What is a situation in your life where you may need to stand out for your faith, even if it's unpopular?

2. What does it mean to be 'available' for God, and why is this important for making a difference in our families and communities?

   Pastor Steve emphasizes that God values availability over ability and seeks individuals who are open to His calling.

   Are there any opportunities in your life where you can make yourself more available for God's work?

3. How can we overcome the fear of man when stepping out in faith and taking risks for God?

   Pastor Steve urged listeners to trust in the Lord for safety, as per Proverbs 29:25, rather than fearing man.

   Can you recall a time when fear held you back from taking a risk for God? How could you approach such a situation differently in the future?

4. Reflecting on Hebrews 11:7, how can we develop a faith like Noah's that is willing to respond to God's warnings?

   Pastor Steve mentioned Hebrews 11:7, which highlights Noah's faith and willingness to obey God despite the challenges.

   What areas in your life require a deeper level of faith and obedience to God?

5. What practical steps can you take to make a difference in your generation, family, and for God?

   Throughout the sermon, Pastor Steve emphasized the importance of being obedient to God's calling and making a difference in various aspects of life.

   Discuss some specific goals or plans you can implement in your life to make a positive impact for God.

Prayer 🙏

Prayer Prompt: • Thank God for His message and guidance through Pastor Steve's sermon. • Ask for prayer requests from the small group members. • Pray for God's help in applying the sermon to our lives throughout the week. • Pray for the courage and willingness to step out in faith and make a difference in our generation, families, and for God.

June 16: Let’s Talk Family #3—Godly Men

Sermon Summary 🎬

Pastor Kendrick Vinar's sermon from the “Let's Talk Family” series urges men to embody godly characteristics in relationships, emphasizing being a man of the word, praying with their wives, and blessing their children. He clarifies that true manliness involves sacrificial love, service to wives, and meeting their needs in various aspects of life. Pastor Kendrick underscores the importance of strong, godly men in nurturing strong, godly women and the harm weak, dominant or passive men can cause within families. Through biblical examples and teachings, he encourages men to lean on God's strength and face challenges with courage, embodying strength in spiritual, emotional, and relational aspects of life.

Ice Breaker 🧊

What is a memorable Father's Day you've experienced?

What is your favorite activity to do in June?

How was your Father's Day?

VIDEO

Here is a 9 minute clip from the message: https://vimeo.com/960678532/6e15712533?share=copy

Discussion Questions 💬

1. What does it mean to be a godly man according to Pastor Kendrick's sermon?

   Pastor Kendrick explains that being a godly man is about laying down one's life for the sake of others, just as Christ loved the church and sacrificially gave Himself up for her.

   How can you apply this definition of godly manhood to your own life?

2. Why is it crucial for men to rely on God's strength instead of their own when facing challenges?

   Pastor Kendrick emphasizes that our own strength is limited, and we need to rely on the Lord's strength and presence to face challenging situations with courage.

   Can you think of an example in your life where you should have relied on God's strength instead of your own?

3. How can men nourish and cherish their wives in every aspect of their lives?

   Some ways include providing spiritual nourishment, emotional support, physical care, and relational connection.

   What specific actions can you take to better nourish and cherish your spouse or future spouse?

4. Based on the story of Joshua, what lesson can we learn about facing our own battles?

   Just as Joshua was commanded to be strong and courageous as he led God's people, we also need to trust in God's presence and strength as we face our own challenges.

   What is a battle in your life where you need to rely on God's strength and courage to face?

5. What are the negative consequences of weak dominant or weak passive men in families and society?

   Pastor Kendrick warns that weak dominant or weak passive men can result in conflict, pain, and devastation within families.

   How can you ensure that you are not contributing to these negative consequences in your own family or community?

Prayer 🙏

• Pray for each other's marriages and relationships with our spouses, asking God to help us prioritize our spouses and put their needs first.

• Ask God to give us the strength to sacrificially love and serve our wives, nurturing and cherishing them in every aspect of their lives.

• Pray for courage and trust in God's presence as we face challenges and overwhelming situations, relying on His strength rather than our own.

• Ask God to help us be men of the Word, praying with our wives and blessing our children, creating a strong and godly foundation for our families.

June 9: Let’s Talk Family #2—Communication

Sermon Summary 🎬

Pastor John Mark Hamilton emphasizes the importance of healthy family communication, discouraging behaviors that hinder effective communication. He encourages unity and resolving conflicts as a team, providing practical tips like forgiveness and prioritizing relationships. Pastor Hamilton stresses the need to nurture a heart free from resentment, as it impacts communication and relationships. By allowing God to transform hearts, individuals can positively change their communication within the family.

Ice Breaker 🧊

"What's the funniest or most embarrassing miscommunication you've ever had with a family member?"

If you were a character from your favorite sitcom, what character would you be?

VIDEO

Here's the link to the 5 minute sermon clip: https://vimeo.com/956515567/d17f77ea08?share=copy

Discussion Questions 💬

1. Why is it important to avoid harboring bitterness, envy, and selfish desires in family communication?

   Pastor Hamilton explains that these behaviors can hinder effective communication and have a negative impact on the entire family.

   How can you recognize and address these emotions in yourself when they arise in conversations with your family?

2. How can letting anger linger affect family relationships and communication?

   Pastor Hamilton refers to the biblical verse that advises against letting anger linger, stating that it can infect everyone in the family and affect all relationships.

   What are some practical ways to address and resolve anger within your family when it arises?

3. What does it mean to fight for unity instead of being right in family communication?

   The pastor suggests that instead of trying to prove oneself right, we should focus on resolving conflicts as a team and prioritizing the relationship.

   Can you share an example of a time when you chose unity over being right in a family situation? How did it impact the outcome?

4. Based on the Sermon on the Mount, why is it essential to cultivate a heart free from resentment?

   Pastor Hamilton teaches that the fruit in a person's life reflects the condition of their heart, and a heart full of resentment can taint the fruit produced in one's life.

   How can you work towards having a heart free from resentment, and what kind of impact do you think it will have on your family relationships?

5. What are some practical steps that can be taken to improve communication within a family, as suggested by Pastor Hamilton?

   The pastor advises forgiveness, taking responsibility, genuine apologies, and prioritizing the relationship over personal desires.

   Which of these steps do you find most challenging, and how can you practice implementing them more effectively in your family communication?

Prayer 🙏

1. Ask God to help us apply the sermon's message on healthy communication to our lives this week. 2. Pray for the strength and wisdom to let go of bitterness, envy, and the need to be right in our family relationships. 3. Seek God's guidance in resolving conflicts and fighting for unity within our families. 4. Pray for transformed hearts, free from resentment, so that our communication can bear good fruit in our relationships.

June 2: Let’s Talk Family #1—Honor

Sermon Summary 🎬

The sermon "A Culture of Honor" focuses on honoring others in relationships, particularly through words, active listening, perception from God's perspective, acts of service, and cultivating a heart of honor. Pastor Kendrick Vinar highlights Proverbs on the power of words, James on active listening, and 2 Corinthians on seeing others as God does. Serving selflessly, following Jesus' example, and fostering kindness and forgiveness are also emphasized for building strong relationships based on honor. The main takeaway is that by practicing honor in various ways, we can positively impact our relationships and uplift those around us.

Ice Breaker 🧊

What is the funniest or most memorable compliment you have ever received?

VIDEO

Here’s a 12 minute clip: https://vimeo.com/953259413/08285d27b0

Discussion Questions 💬

1. How can we ensure that our words are honoring and respectful, even when we disagree with someone?

   In the sermon, the first way to express honor was through our words, using Proverbs and Ephesians 4:29 as a guide.

   Think of a recent disagreement you had. How could you have used more honorable language in that situation?

2. Why is active listening essential to showing honor, and how can we improve our listening skills?

   The second way to honor others mentioned in the sermon was through active listening, with reference to James 1:19.

   Share a personal experience where active listening positively impacted a relationship in your life.

3. How can we change our perspective to see others from God's point of view, rather than a worldly one?

   The third way to express honor was by perceiving others from God's viewpoint, using 2 Corinthians 5:16 as a reference.

   Can you think of someone you may be viewing from a worldly perspective? How can you adjust your view to see them as God sees them?

4. What acts of service can we perform to demonstrate honor and selflessness in our relationships?

   The fourth way to honor others in the sermon was through acts of service, with Jesus as the ultimate example and citing Galatians 5:13.

   Choose one specific relationship where you could serve the other person. What act of service could you perform for them?

5. How can we cultivate an attitude of honor in our hearts, and why is it essential for healthy relationships?

   The fifth way to express honor discussed in the sermon was by cultivating an attitude of honor in our hearts, which includes kindness, compassion, and forgiveness.

   Reflect on your current attitude towards others. What areas can you work on to cultivate a more honorable heart?

Prayer 🙏

Take a moment to share any prayer requests or concerns with the group.
• Ask God to help us speak words that build up and honor others, even in times of disagreement.
• Pray for the ability to actively listen and value the thoughts and opinions of those around us.
• Seek God's perspective on how to honor and believe in others' potential.
• Ask for a heart of service, to actively look for opportunities to serve and honor others throughout the week.

May 23/26: Storms

Pastor Jeff Little's sermon on faith emphasizes that salvation is through God's grace, not good works. Faith in God's promises can provide comfort and strength during life's storms. Belief in God's word, not just positive thinking, is crucial for a strong faith. Acting on one's beliefs is essential for a complete faith journey, especially in relationships and challenges. Ultimately, finding peace through faith in God's promises can help believers overcome life's storms.

ICEBREAKER

What is your favorite summer activity? Why? Beach, Lake, or pool? Hot dogs or hamburgers?

VIDEO

The 9 minute clip can be found at here: https://vimeo.com/951265630/d90dfac77d?share=copy

DISCUSSION QUESTIONS

1. How can trusting in God's promises help us find comfort and strength during life's storms?

   Context: Pastor Little emphasized the importance of anchoring ourselves in God's promises when facing storms in our lives.

   Application Question: What is a specific promise from Scripture that you can rely on during a difficult time in your life?

2. Why is it crucial to immerse ourselves in God's word and decrease exposure to negative viewpoints in today's society?

   Context: Pastor Little mentioned that faith is a substance that comes from hearing and absorbing the word of God.

   Application Question: What are some practical steps you can take to increase your exposure to God's word and decrease negativity in your life?

3. What role does acting on our beliefs play in expressing our faith, and why is it essential?

   Context: Pastor Little explained that faith without action is incomplete and that following biblical principles in relationships is vital.

   Application Question: What is one action you can take this week to demonstrate your faith in a specific area of your life?

4. How can we exercise faith and trust in God's guidance when facing challenges in our health or family situations?

   Context: Pastor Little acknowledged that health and family are significant sources of turmoil but also provide an opportunity to trust in God's guidance.

   Application Question: Can you share a time when you experienced God's guidance in a challenging situation related to your health or family?

5. In what ways can we incorporate trust, belief, and action in our faith journey to find peace and overcome life's storms?

   Context: The sermon encourages listeners to place their faith in God's promises, immerse themselves in His word, and act faithfully in their relationships.

   Application Question: Which of these three aspects of faith do you feel you need to work on the most, and why?

Prayer Prompt:

• Ask for prayer requests from the group.
• Pray for God's guidance and strength to trust in His promises during the storms of life.
• Pray for a hunger and desire to immerse ourselves in God's word, seeking His truth and wisdom.
• Pray for the courage and obedience to act on our beliefs, trusting God's instructions in our relationships.

Dream Team Weekend: Serving

In the sermon, Pastor Adam delves into Jesus' principle of servant leadership. Jesus poses a question to his disciples about what they were debating among themselves, using their argument about who was the greatest among them as a teaching moment. Contrary to the conventional interpretation of greatness, Jesus pointed out that true greatness in the eyes of God came from being last and a servant to all. This challenged the conventional view of seeking societal status and recognition. Servitude is about humility, having a heart that believes it deserves nothing and serving others without expectation of personal gain. Pastor Adam further underscores the importance of the "why" behind the action of serving. He contends that when our motivation to serve stems from God's love, we gain a clear perspective on what needs to be done. This way, service is not about doing more or working harder but finding satisfaction in Christ's love.

ICE BREAKERS

Tell us a weird fact you happen to know for no reason.

What is the best prank you’ve experienced or planned?

When’s a time that someone’s serving deeply impacted you?

VIDEO

You can find the 12 minute clip at https://vimeo.com/948780189/a64eb0edd3?share=copy

DISCUSSION QUESTIONS

1. What does it mean to have a servant's heart, and how is it different from society's view of success?

   Context: Jesus taught that to be great in God's kingdom, you should be a servant to all. This is contrary to society's values, which often promote status and recognition.

   Application Question: How can you adopt a servant's heart in your everyday life?

2. Why is it important to be content with what God has provided in our lives?

   Context: Pastor Adam emphasized that being content allows us to serve others without seeking approval or manipulating outcomes.

   Application Question: Are there areas in your life where you struggle with contentment, and how can you work on being content in those areas?

3. What does it mean to serve others out of genuine love and not guilt?

   Context: Pastor Adam warned against serving with selfish motives and encouraged aligning our hearts with God's to serve from a place of love.

   Application Question: Can you identify a time you served others out of guilt or selfish motives, and how did it affect your experience?

4. How did Jesus model servanthood, and what can we learn from his example?

   Context: Jesus came to serve and give his life as a ransom for many, showing us that serving others is central to his teachings.

   Application Question: What are some practical ways that you can follow Jesus' example in serving others in your day-to-day life?

5. What are some benefits of serving in our families and workplaces as mentioned in the sermon?

   Context: Pastor Adam shared examples of improved relationships and unexpected advancements when people chose to serve others instead of pursuing personal gain.

   Application Question: What are opportunities to serve in your family or workplace, and how might they impact your connections with others?

PRAYER

• Ask for prayer requests
• Pray that God would help us to see the opportunities He has given us to serve.
• Pray that we would continue to learn how to walk in humility.

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Build Your Life Sermon #6—Development: Keep Growing

Pastor Kendrick Vinar discusses the Parable of the Sower, relating it to building a strong spiritual life by examining different types of soil representing conditions of the heart. The hard ground signifies closed hearts, the rocky ground represents shallow faith, and the thorny ground symbolizes worldly distractions hindering spiritual growth. The good soil signifies a heart receptive to God's word, emphasizing the importance of understanding Jesus' identity, fostering a hunger for spiritual nourishment, and addressing hindrances like unforgiveness to cultivate growth. Pastor Kendrick encourages continuous cooperation with God's work in personal growth, promising that God will complete His work in their lives.

ICE BREAKERS

"What's the most creative excuse you've ever come up with to avoid doing something you didn't want to do?"

What's the most unusual thing you've ever grown in your garden?

If you could have any plant as a pet, what plant would you choose and why?

VIDEO

You can find the 7 minute clip at https://vimeo.com/945895023/67d1a80e6f

DISCUSSION QUESTIONS

1. What characteristics make up the good soil that allows God's word to bear fruit in our lives?

   Context: Pastor Kendrick mentions that a good heart is hungry, open, humble, and teachable.

   Application Question: In what areas of your life do you need to cultivate these characteristics to better grow in your relationship with God?

2. How do the cares of the world and the deceitfulness of riches suffocate spiritual growth in the thorny ground?

   Context: The thorny ground represents people who hear the word but let the world's concerns and riches take precedence, preventing spiritual growth.

   Application Question: What specific distractions or material pursuits might be hindering your spiritual growth?

3. Why is it important to nourish our spirits with the word of God daily?

   Context: Pastor Kendrick draws a parallel between the necessity of physical food and spiritual nourishment.

   Application Question: What are some practical ways you can commit to daily reading, studying, and meditating on the Bible?

4. How can unforgiveness act as a weed in our spiritual lives and hinder growth?

   Context: Unforgiveness is a weed that can take root and spread bitterness, which can hinder spiritual growth.

   Application Question: Is there anyone you need to forgive or seek forgiveness from to help remove this hindrance from your spiritual life?

5. What is the significance of Peter's confession that Jesus is the Christ, the son of the living God, in our spiritual lives?

   Context: Acknowledging Jesus as the Christ, the son of the living God, is crucial for receiving salvation and eternal life.

   Application Question: What does it mean to you personally to follow Jesus and accept Him as the Christ, the son of the living God?

6. What is God putting on your heart?

PRAYER

• Ask for prayer requests
• Pray for hearts to be open and receptive to God's word throughout the week
• Pray for strength to overcome any obstacles or hindrances to spiritual growth
• Pray for a hunger and desire to consistently read, study, and meditate on the Bible

Build Your Life Sermon #5—Generosity

Pastor Kendrick Vinar's sermon focuses on generosity and the importance of having an abundance mentality rather than a poverty mentality when it comes to giving. He explains how love for money can reveal one's mindset and highlights that true generosity is a heart issue. Through the story of a pastor in Havana, he illustrates the transformative power of living with an abundance mentality. Vinar challenges the congregation to break free from the mindset of lack and embrace a mindset of abundance, emphasizing that generosity is not just a feeling but requires intentional and deliberate action in giving.

ICE BREAKER

What is the most creative or unusual way you've ever found loose change or spare cash?

What's the funniest or most embarrassing thing you've ever done for the sake of being generous or helping someone else?

"What's the most unexpected or unusual thing you've ever received as a gift?"

VIDEO

The 12 Minute video can be found at https://vimeo.com/943249845/7892fbaa4b?share=copy

DISCUSSION

1. What are the main differences between a poverty mentality and an abundance mentality?

   Context: Pastor Kendrick Vinar explained that a poverty mentality believes giving will result in having less, while an abundance mentality believes giving leads to blessings from God.

   Application Question: In your own life, do you tend to lean more towards a poverty mentality or an abundance mentality? Explain why.

2. How does the love for money reveal whether we have a poverty mentality or an abundance mentality?

   Context: Pastor Vinar referenced Ecclesiastes 5:10, explaining that those who love money are never satisfied with their income, while an abundance mentality acknowledges that God will take care of our needs.

   Application Question: What can you do to shift away from a love for money and focus more on God's provision in your life?

3. Why is generosity a heart issue and not dependent on the quantity of resources?

   Context: Pastor Vinar emphasized that generosity comes from the depth of a person's character and a Christ-like mindset, not from the amount of money one possesses.

   Application Question: Are there any areas in your life where you could be more generous with your time, talents, or treasures, regardless of your current financial situation?

4. What can we learn from the story of Alejandro Nieto and how it relates to having an abundance mentality?

   Context: Despite financial challenges, Alejandro and his wife committed to giving 90% of their church's offerings to support other pastors and their mission, resulting in revival and growth.

   Application Question: How can you apply the principles of Alejandro's story to develop an abundance mentality in your own life and faith?

5. Why is it important for individuals to be personally responsible for their generosity?

   Context: Pastor Kendrick Vinar emphasized personal responsibility and the need for individuals to be generous with their own resources rather than delegating it to others or expecting it from external entities.

   Application Question: Think about the ways you can personally embody generosity and take action in your own life. What steps will you take to be more generous?

PRAYER
• Ask for prayer requests from the group members.
• Pray for God's guidance and strength to apply the sermon on generosity to their lives throughout the week.
• Pray for a shift in mindset from a poverty mentality to an abundance mentality, trusting in God's provision.
• Pray for opportunities to be generous in tangible ways, taking personal responsibility for giving and blessing others.

Build Your Life Sermon #4—Spiritual Family

We see the importance of spiritual family for growth and community, drawing parallels to natural families. Pastor John Mark emphasizes the benefits of mentorship, nurturing the next generation, and providing support. He shares personal experiences of finding spiritual family and highlights the early church's communal living in Acts. Hamilton concludes by underscoring the transformative power of spiritual families in shaping lives and communities for a purpose-driven destiny.

ICE BREAKERS

What's the funniest or most embarrassing thing that has happened to you during a family gathering or reunion?

What's the most memorable or hilarious family tradition you've experienced or heard of?

VIDEO

You can find the 7 minute message clip at https://vimeo.com/940925292/d734a86629

DISCUSSION QUESTIONS

1. What characteristics of a spiritual family are important for spiritual growth, and how can they be developed within a community?

   Context: Pastor Hamilton mentioned that spiritual families are essential for spiritual growth by being relational, learning from one another, and passing on spiritual wisdom.

   Application Question: How can you contribute to or experience these characteristics in your own church community?

2. How can being part of a spiritual family help overcome feelings of loneliness and isolation?

   Context: Hamilton emphasizes that a spiritual family provides a sense of belonging, purpose, love, and care for its members.

   Application Question: Describe a time when being a part of a spiritual family helped you feel less lonely or isolated.

3. In what ways did the early church in Acts model a functional spiritual family?

   Context: Hamilton cites devotion to apostles' teachings, fellowship, breaking bread, and prayer as key aspects of the early church's spiritual family.

   Application Question: Which of these aspects do you see in your own church community, and which might need more emphasis?

4. Why is it important to be part of a smaller group within the church, such as small groups or growth tracks?

   Context: Hamilton shares how engaging in smaller groups allows for deeper relationships, studying scripture, and sharing life experiences.

   Application Question: What positive experiences or growth have you experienced as part of a small group?

5. How does being part of a spiritual family empower individuals to contribute to the transformation of their local surroundings?

   Context: Hamilton believes that spiritual families can transform lives, cities, families, and people by placing individuals in positions of purpose and destiny.

   Application Question: In what ways is your spiritual family making an impact in your community, and how can you get involved in those efforts?

Prayer Prompt:
• Ask God to help us apply the sermon's message about the importance of spiritual family to our lives throughout the coming week.

• Pray for opportunities to connect with and invest in our spiritual family, both within our small group and the larger church community.

• Ask God to reveal areas in our lives where we may be feeling lonely or isolated, and to provide us with a sense of belonging and purpose within our spiritual family.

• Pray for God's guidance and wisdom as we seek to pass on spiritual wisdom and knowledge to the next generation, both within our own families and within the church community.

Build Your Life Sermon #3—Health

Today we are focused on the importance of pursuing health to fulfill God's calling. Health is about wholeness and right relationships, not perfection. God wants us healthy to live out our divine calling and influence others positively. By allowing God's light to shine through us, we can attract others to Him and make a difference in their lives.

ICEBREAKER

"What's your go-to guilty pleasure food that you just can't resist, even if it's not the healthiest choice?"

"What's the most unusual or unexpected way you've ever tried to stay healthy or improve your well-being?"

If you were a flavor of ice cream, which flavor would you be and why?

VIDEO

The 15 minute video clip can be found at https://vimeo.com/937748895/4292cfca21?share=copy

DISCUSSION QUESTIONS

1. How does Pastor Jonathan Love define health in this sermon, and what does it mean in our lives?

   Context: Health is about being sound and whole, pursuing correct thinking and right relationships in every area of life.

   Application Question: In which areas of your life do you feel you are healthy, and in which areas do you feel you need to pursue health more intentionally?

2. Why does God want us to be healthy according to the sermon?

   Context: God desires us to be healthy because He loves us and has a divine calling for each of us, which is connected to our health

   Application Question: Do you feel like your health is connected to your divine calling? Why or why not?

3. How does pursuing health in our lives impact our influence on others?

   Context: Being healthy enables us to shine as the light of the world, attracting others to God through our example.

   Application Question: Can you think of a time when you felt your health (or lack of it) affected your ability to influence others spiritually?

4. What are some examples of how we can be a 'bug lamp' that attracts others to God?

   Context: Striving to have the best marriages, parent obedient children, build healthy relationships, excel in work, prioritize physical health, manage finances with generosity, and showing kindness, generosity, and servant-heartedness.

   Application Question: Which of these areas do you strive most to be 'bug lamp' in your life?

5. How can we avoid falling into the trap of trying to be good enough or perfect when pursuing health?

   Context: It's about embracing the health and wholeness God offers, not striving for perfection or earning God's love.

   Application Question: In what ways have you struggled with trying to be good enough or perfect, and how can you embrace the health and wholeness God offers instead?

PRAYER

• Please share any prayer requests or concerns with the group.
• Ask God to help us pursue health and wholeness in every area of our lives.
• Pray for the ability to be a shining light and have a positive influence on others.
• Ask God to give us a vision for health and the strength to allow His light to shine through us throughout the week.

Build Your Life Sermon #2—Grace

Pastor Kendrick Vinar's sermon focuses on different aspects of grace available to us, starting with grace as the foundation of our relationship with God for forgiveness. He highlights the connection between mercy and grace, underscoring how grace goes beyond forgiveness to bring God's righteousness into our lives. The sermon emphasizes grace for trust, obedience, forgiveness, living according to God's will, enduring suffering, and facing each day with confidence in God's provision. Ultimately, Pastor Kendrick encourages believers to embrace the various dimensions of God's grace and approach life's challenges with faith.

ICEBREAKER

1. "What's the funniest or most embarrassing thing that has ever happened to you while trying to be 'graceful'?"

2. "What's the most hilariously embarrassing thing that has ever happened to you in a church setting?"

VIDEO

The 15 minute Clip can be found at https://vimeo.com/934532938/83116dbb8e?share=copy

DISCUSSION QUESTIONS

1. How does God's grace go beyond forgiveness and impact our daily lives?

   Context: Pastor Kendrick mentioned that grace not only offers forgiveness but empowers us to live godly lives, saying no to ungodliness and worldly passions.

   Application Question: In what ways have you experienced God's grace empowering you to overcome ungodliness and worldly passions in your own life?

2. Why is forgiveness essential in maintaining healthy relationships?

   Context: Pastor Kendrick discussed the importance of forgiveness in relationships, especially in marriage and family settings.

   Application Question: Can you share a time when forgiveness, or a lack thereof, affected a relationship in your life, and what you learned from it?

3. What does it mean to have grace for God's will and how can we discern it?

   Context: Pastor Kendrick emphasized that when God calls us to something, He also provides the grace to carry it out. Discerning whether we have God's grace for a task or situation can help us understand if it's within His will.

   Application Question: Can you recall a situation where you experienced God's grace while carrying out His will? How did you discern that it was His will?

4. How can God's grace be present in our suffering?

   Context: Pastor Kendrick referred to the Apostle Paul's thorn in the flesh and how God's grace sustained him, even though God didn't deliver him from his suffering.

   Application Question: Have you ever experienced God's grace while going through suffering or seen it in someone else's life? How did that change your perspective on suffering?

5. What does it mean to live by grace for today and not worry about the future?

   Context: Pastor Kendrick quoted a piece from 1948 about living in the present and not being burdened by the past or future. He also reminded listeners of Jesus' teaching not to worry about tomorrow.

   Application Question: How can you personally practice living in God's grace each day rather than worrying about the future or dwelling on past regrets?

6. How does God's grace go beyond forgiveness and impact our daily lives?

   Context: Pastor Kendrick mentioned that grace not only offers forgiveness but empowers us to live godly lives, saying no to ungodliness and worldly passions.

   Application Question: In what ways have you experienced God's grace empowering you to overcome ungodliness and worldly passions in your own life?

7. Why is forgiveness essential in maintaining healthy relationships?

   Context: Pastor Kendrick discussed the importance of forgiveness in relationships, especially in marriage and family settings.

   Application Question: Can you share a time when forgiveness, or a lack thereof, affected a relationship in your life, and what you learned from it?

8. What does it mean to have grace for God's will and how can we discern it?

   Context: Pastor Kendrick emphasized that when God calls us to something, He also provides the grace to carry it out. Discerning whether we have God's grace for a task or situation can help us understand if it's within His will.

   Application Question: Can you recall a situation where you experienced God's grace while carrying out His will? How did you discern that it was His will?

9. How can God's grace be present in our suffering?

   Context: Pastor Kendrick referred to the Apostle Paul's thorn in the flesh and how God's grace sustained him, even though God didn't deliver him from his suffering.

   Application Question: Have you ever experienced God's grace while going through suffering or seen it in someone else's life? How did that change your perspective on suffering?

10. What does it mean to live by grace for today and not worry about the future?

    Context: Pastor Kendrick quoted a piece from 1948 about living in the present and not being burdened by the past or future. He also reminded listeners of Jesus' teaching not to worry about tomorrow.

    Application Question: How can you personally practice living in God's grace each day rather than worrying about the future or dwelling on past regrets?

Prayer Points:

• Ask for prayer requests and take a moment to pray for one another.

• Ask God to help us fully embrace His grace in our lives this week.

• Pray for the grace to trust and obey, that we may surrender our will to God's will.

• Ask for the grace to forgive others, and to let go of bitterness and hurt in our relationships.

Build Your Life Sermon #1—Enjoying God

The sermon "Enjoying God" by Pastor Kendrick Vinar discusses finding joy and fulfillment in God in various life situations. It emphasizes that enjoyment of God is not dependent on circumstances but can be experienced even in challenging times. The sermon explores experiencing God in the valley, on the mountain, in the desert, in the storm, in sorrow, in failure, in confusion, and at the start and end of the day. Pastor Kendrick encourages listeners to seek God's presence and find comfort, wisdom, and joy in Him throughout all aspects of life.

ICEBREAKER

1. What's the most hilarious or embarrassing way you've ever tried to cheer yourself up when feeling down?

2. What's the most random or bizarre thing that has ever made you laugh uncontrollably?

3. "What's the most unexpected or unusual thing that brings a smile to your face, even on the toughest days?"

VIDEO

Here’s a 16 minute clip of the message: https://vimeo.com/932066322/169cdefff5

DISCUSSION QUESTIONS

1. How can we find joy and a deep connection with God in the valleys of our lives?

   Context: Pastor Kendrick shared the example of his wife breaking her leg and being unable to walk for three months. He referenced Psalm 84:6 which shows that even in the valley of weeping, God can turn it into a place of springs and provide sustenance and comfort.

   Application Question: Can you think of a recent personal valley experience where you found or could have found joy and connection with God?

2. Why is it important to acknowledge God's role in our mountain (successful) moments?

   Context: Pastor Kendrick warns against becoming self-reliant and attributing success solely to our own abilities. He encourages gratitude to God and recognizing that all blessings come from Him.

   Application Question: Share a recent achievement or success and discuss how you see God's role in it.

3. How can we seek and find refreshment and rejuvenation in God during the desert periods of our lives?

   Context: Pastor Kendrick quotes Psalm 63:1 which expresses a deep longing for God's presence and thirst for Him in a weary land without water.

   Application Question: What are some practical ways you can seek God's presence and refreshment during 'desert' times in your life?

4. What can we learn from the disciples' experience of facing a storm with Jesus?

   Context: Pastor Kendrick talks about the disciples being in a literal storm while Jesus slept peacefully in the boat. He encourages listeners to rise up in their hearts, declare God's goodness, and trust that He will see them through the storms of life.

   Application Question: How can you apply the lessons from the disciples' experience to your own stormy situations in life?

5. What comfort and hope can we find in God's presence and eternal perspective when we face sorrow and loss?

   Context: Pastor Kendrick acknowledges the pain and devastation that come with losing a loved one but highlights the comfort and hope that can be found in God's presence and His eternal perspective.

   Application Question: Share a time where you experienced or witnessed God's comfort and hope during a time of sorrow or loss.

6. How can we find joy and a deep connection with God in the valleys of our lives?

   Context: Pastor Kendrick shared the example of his wife breaking her leg and being unable to walk for three months. He referenced Psalm 84:6 which shows that even in the valley of weeping, God can turn it into a place of springs and provide sustenance and comfort.

   Application Question: Can you think of a recent personal valley experience where you found or could have found joy and connection with God?

7. Why is it important to acknowledge God's role in our mountain (successful) moments?

   Context: Pastor Kendrick warns against becoming self-reliant and attributing success solely to our own abilities. He encourages gratitude to God and recognizing that all blessings come from Him.

   Application Question: Share a recent achievement or success and discuss how you see God's role in it.

8. How can we seek and find refreshment and rejuvenation in God during the desert periods of our lives?

   Context: Pastor Kendrick quotes Psalm 63:1 which expresses a deep longing for God's presence and thirst for Him in a weary land without water.

   Application Question: What are some practical ways you can seek God's presence and refreshment during 'desert' times in your life?

9. What can we learn from the disciples' experience of facing a storm with Jesus?

   Context: Pastor Kendrick talks about the disciples being in a literal storm while Jesus slept peacefully in the boat. He encourages listeners to rise up in their hearts, declare God's goodness, and trust that He will see them through the storms of life.

   Application Question: How can you apply the lessons from the disciples' experience to your own stormy situations in life?

10. What comfort and hope can we find in God's presence and eternal perspective when we face sorrow and loss?

    Context: Pastor Kendrick acknowledges the pain and devastation that come with losing a loved one but highlights the comfort and hope that can be found in God's presence and His eternal perspective.

    Application Question: Share a time where you experienced or witnessed God's comfort and hope during a time of sorrow or loss.

Prayer Prompt:

• Begin by sharing prayer requests and lifting them up to God.
• Ask God to help us find joy and fulfillment in Him, regardless of our circumstances or mood.
• Pray for the ability to experience God's presence and find comfort in the valleys of life.
• Seek God's guidance and gratitude in times of success and avoid self-reliance.

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PRAY FIRST GROUPS

Message Discussion groups are now transforming into Pray First Groups, which are 6 week groups that start the week of Feb. 11. You can find all resources at http://gracelife.com/prayfirstgroup

Jan. 21 —How to Stop a Bad Habit

ICEBREAKER

1. If you could add a ridiculous new habit to your daily routine that would make you laugh every time, what would it be?

   VIDEO

   Check out the11 minute video here at https://vimeo.com/905734975/dd9592b551?share=copy

   DISCUSSION QUESTIONS

   1. How do small habits influence our overall happiness?

   2. What is one small habit you can start adding to your daily routine to increase your happiness?

   3. In what ways can poor decisions and habits make us stray away from God's plan?

   4. Samson's downfall was not a result of one major mistake but a series of poor decisions and habits over time.

      Can you think of a time when a series of poor decisions or habits caused you to stray from God's plan for your life?

   5. How can we use the habit loop to break bad habits and create good ones?

   6. What is a bad habit you want to break and what steps can you take through the habit loop to overcome it?

   7. Why is it important to seek God's guidance and strength when trying to change our habits?

   8. What is a situation in your own life where you need to rely on God's strength and guidance to change a habit?

   9. How can we support each other in our journey towards becoming more like Christ and developing good habits?

   10. What one new habit are you asking God to empower you to implement?

   PRAYER

   Pray for God’s strength in developing 1 new habit?